Comments on: Red http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/ Violence UnSilenced: Shedding light on domestic violence and sexual abuse/assault by giving survivors a voice. Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:14:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Traci http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/#comment-10822 Traci Sat, 07 Aug 2010 23:09:13 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1150#comment-10822 Thank you for sharing, I am so sorry for what has happened to you. This was and never will be your fault! You are not to blame! No one has the right to do this to another person. I wish you all the best on your healing journey and hope that you continue to thrive in your marriage and life itself xo Thank you for sharing, I am so sorry for what has happened to you. This was and never will be your fault! You are not to blame! No one has the right to do this to another person. I wish you all the best on your healing journey and hope that you continue to thrive in your marriage and life itself xo

]]> By: jinani http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/#comment-9841 jinani Sat, 08 May 2010 20:41:44 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1150#comment-9841 It is not your fault. Please remember these words every single day because they are the absolute truth. Don't be fooled or misguided, it was never your fault and never will be. Every person carries the weight of their actions. I know you carry the pain and the scars, but the sin belongs to these 2 boys, never to you. Thank you for sharing your story. I pray that you find true happiness. It is not your fault. Please remember these words every single day because they are the absolute truth.
Don’t be fooled or misguided, it was never your fault and never will be.
Every person carries the weight of their actions. I know you carry the pain and the scars, but the sin belongs to these 2 boys, never to you.
Thank you for sharing your story. I pray that you find true happiness.

]]> By: moonpun http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/#comment-9812 moonpun Tue, 04 May 2010 16:13:23 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1150#comment-9812 it's not your fault, even though I know sometimes it might seem hard to believe that. You will continue to fight and be strong, even if you drink a little to forget. Thank you for sharing your story and your pain. Be well. it’s not your fault, even though I know sometimes it might seem hard to believe that. You will continue to fight and be strong, even if you drink a little to forget. Thank you for sharing your story and your pain. Be well.

]]> By: Sunday Stilwell http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/#comment-9792 Sunday Stilwell Wed, 28 Apr 2010 13:55:24 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1150#comment-9792 Oh Amber, I am so sorry. I had no idea this had happened to you. Thank you for speaking out and giving a voice to those who have not the courage to do so yet. Oh Amber, I am so sorry. I had no idea this had happened to you.
Thank you for speaking out and giving a voice to those who have not the courage to do so yet.

]]> By: Stone Fox http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/#comment-9760 Stone Fox Tue, 27 Apr 2010 03:31:48 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1150#comment-9760 being raped is absolutely, totally, 100% not your fault. you did not do a single thing to encourage it or cause it to happen. being drunk is not an open invitation for others to take advantage of you. you ARE good enough for anything in this world you decide to set your sights on. i hope those days of too much pain become fewer and farther between. being raped is absolutely, totally, 100% not your fault. you did not do a single thing to encourage it or cause it to happen. being drunk is not an open invitation for others to take advantage of you.

you ARE good enough for anything in this world you decide to set your sights on. i hope those days of too much pain become fewer and farther between.

]]> By: Aerin http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/#comment-9752 Aerin Mon, 26 Apr 2010 22:32:36 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1150#comment-9752 I so understand feeling "not good enough"... I still struggle with that and probably always will. You are more than good enough, you are strong and brave and beautiful. It is so hard to get over being betrayed by those we should be able to trust. I hope you are able to see that it was never your fault.... that there is nothing to forgive yourself for. I so understand feeling “not good enough”… I still struggle with that and probably always will. You are more than good enough, you are strong and brave and beautiful. It is so hard to get over being betrayed by those we should be able to trust. I hope you are able to see that it was never your fault…. that there is nothing to forgive yourself for.

]]> By: Rachel http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/#comment-9697 Rachel Fri, 23 Apr 2010 22:04:42 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1150#comment-9697 Dobn't ever think it was your fault, it was not. Dobn’t ever think it was your fault, it was not.

]]> By: pgoodness http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/#comment-9670 pgoodness Thu, 22 Apr 2010 18:34:52 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1150#comment-9670 So NOT your fault. Thank you for sharing your story. So NOT your fault. Thank you for sharing your story.

]]> By: Kate http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/#comment-9639 Kate Thu, 22 Apr 2010 02:46:52 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1150#comment-9639 Amber. Thank you for sharing your story. It sounds like you're figuring it all out and you have a support system to help you. You aren't alone. Not at all. Amber. Thank you for sharing your story. It sounds like you’re figuring it all out and you have a support system to help you. You aren’t alone. Not at all.

]]> By: Mary http://violenceunsilenced.com/red/#comment-9638 Mary Wed, 21 Apr 2010 15:16:35 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1150#comment-9638 Rape is not the fault of the victim. NOT EVER. There is no reason for any man to take sexual liberties with a woman who is not capable of consent. I am glad you are still here with your voice, sharing your words, baring your soul. I wish that I could give you the gift of self-acceptance and self-forgiveness, but those things can only come from within you. Rape is not the fault of the victim. NOT EVER. There is no reason for any man to take sexual liberties with a woman who is not capable of consent. I am glad you are still here with your voice, sharing your words, baring your soul. I wish that I could give you the gift of self-acceptance and self-forgiveness, but those things can only come from within you.

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