Comments on: Jill http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/ Violence UnSilenced: Shedding light on domestic violence and sexual abuse/assault by giving survivors a voice. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 23:32:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Emily R http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/#comment-10843 Emily R Sat, 14 Aug 2010 13:43:53 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1320#comment-10843 Oh, my goodness. How awful to know it is true and not be able to remember. I hope some day you do remember. Oh, my goodness. How awful to know it is true and not be able to remember. I hope some day you do remember.

]]> By: S.K. http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/#comment-10734 S.K. Wed, 28 Jul 2010 15:23:10 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1320#comment-10734 Wow, I can only imagine how terrifying it must be to have no memories of something so important. I hope that in the end, whether you do or don't remember, it ends up being best for you. My prayers are with you. Wow, I can only imagine how terrifying it must be to have no memories of something so important. I hope that in the end, whether you do or don’t remember, it ends up being best for you. My prayers are with you.

]]> By: sexgenderbody http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/#comment-26652 sexgenderbody Wed, 28 Jul 2010 11:04:34 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1320#comment-26652 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Jill : Violence UnSilenced http://ff.im/-oouGC</span></span> Jill : Violence UnSilenced http://ff.im/-oouGC

]]> By: Kate http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/#comment-10713 Kate Mon, 26 Jul 2010 01:53:52 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1320#comment-10713 Darling woman. Thank you so much for sharing. It's powerful stuff. The body and brain are wonderful, wonderful organs. I didn't eat for a month after my brother died, not one morsel. I didn't lose a pound. I was in shock and my body protected me. Your brain has protected you. There are wonderful healers who can help you. If you would be willing to call hypnotherapists or energy healers (start at your holistic wellness centers) they can help you. I know about these things. I had a childhood trauma and I "lost" it in my body too. Peace be with you. Darling woman. Thank you so much for sharing. It’s powerful stuff. The body and brain are wonderful, wonderful organs. I didn’t eat for a month after my brother died, not one morsel. I didn’t lose a pound. I was in shock and my body protected me. Your brain has protected you. There are wonderful healers who can help you. If you would be willing to call hypnotherapists or energy healers (start at your holistic wellness centers) they can help you. I know about these things. I had a childhood trauma and I “lost” it in my body too. Peace be with you.

]]> By: Aerin http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/#comment-10710 Aerin Mon, 26 Jul 2010 01:22:30 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1320#comment-10710 I am so sorry... I am hoping and praying you will be able to fill in those missing memories and deal with them when the time comes. Until then, I hope you are able to surround yourself with people who truly love you. You are so strong. I am so sorry… I am hoping and praying you will be able to fill in those missing memories and deal with them when the time comes. Until then, I hope you are able to surround yourself with people who truly love you. You are so strong.

]]> By: Rachel http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/#comment-10706 Rachel Sun, 25 Jul 2010 12:21:58 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1320#comment-10706 I can't imagine what it must be like to have a gap where you should have your memories, no matter how awful they are. *hugs* I can’t imagine what it must be like to have a gap where you should have your memories, no matter how awful they are. *hugs*

]]> By: Suz http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/#comment-10699 Suz Fri, 23 Jul 2010 22:49:47 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1320#comment-10699 My sister and I were both abused from I am thinking 5 until our teens she has no memories I have them all. I really could not tell you who got the better ?deal? Hugs and kisses from another one. My sister and I were both abused from I am thinking 5 until our teens she has no memories I have them all. I really could not tell you who got the better ?deal?
Hugs and kisses from another one.

]]> By: Miss Grace http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/#comment-10698 Miss Grace Fri, 23 Jul 2010 20:30:00 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1320#comment-10698 Remember that you are brave and strong and loved. Remember that you are brave and strong and loved.

]]> By: Kimberly http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/#comment-10685 Kimberly Thu, 22 Jul 2010 16:29:18 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1320#comment-10685 Hidden memories are a blessing and a curse. There are so many things that I know happened but can't remember and a big part of me does not want to remember. From my mom to my step-father there's a lot of blank pages. But you are not a failure. You've protected yourself and your sanity in a way that has kept you. I hope that you find peace with or without owning those memories. Stay strong! Hidden memories are a blessing and a curse. There are so many things that I know happened but can’t remember and a big part of me does not want to remember. From my mom to my step-father there’s a lot of blank pages.

But you are not a failure. You’ve protected yourself and your sanity in a way that has kept you. I hope that you find peace with or without owning those memories.

Stay strong!

]]> By: muskrat http://violenceunsilenced.com/jill/#comment-10682 muskrat Thu, 22 Jul 2010 14:49:04 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=1320#comment-10682 that's awful....i would think a counselor or psychiatrist would be able to help bring those back from your mental recesses, if you really wanted to get them. it's obviously a coping mechanism your body has decided to employ and certainly isn't a reflection of some sort of deficiency in you. that’s awful….i would think a counselor or psychiatrist would be able to help bring those back from your mental recesses, if you really wanted to get them. it’s obviously a coping mechanism your body has decided to employ and certainly isn’t a reflection of some sort of deficiency in you.

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